Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Wotta Coincidence???

"I believe that coincidence is the name people give to events that are intended to draw their attention to something more important.
So no, I don't feel there are any coincidences.I also know that we attract into our lives people who reflect our current emotional state. I'm not talking about our daily happy/sad, but rather, what really underlies us.


Are we insecure? Then most of the people we relate to will reflect that in some way. That's one example of many.Also, there's a saying called "A season, a reason, or a lifetime."People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.


When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.


Then people come into your life for a SEASON because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life."